Do you remember fantasizing about your hot school teacher when you were just 16 years old?
Fantasizing about attractive older women is common among young men and you will be surprised to know that it is equally popular among older women.
The acronym MILF was made famous by the movie “American Pie”. Now used quite commonly, MILF denotes a sexually attractive female, generally between the age of thirty and fifty. Then there is another term “Cougar” which is used to refer to a desirable woman over 35 years old who sexually pursues younger men, typically ten years younger than her.
Ever wondered why a cougar is hunted by so many men?
It’s possible that a sexual encounter of a younger man with an older woman may turn out to be his best erotic experience.Of course, the benefits continue when the man is ready for a relationship with a girl his own age.
In all likelihood, it will be hard to find a better tutor once you’ve been with a cougar. Men like older women because they are more interesting and less insecure than girls of their age. They are more understanding and their maturity is probably the sexiest attraction.
Here are some of the reasons why men say that their older lovers are sexually superior to their younger sexual partners.
- It’s a numbers game
Age stands for experience. The age of a cougar itself says a lot about her experiences with multiple partners.
- They are not confused
Their self-awareness comes after years of experience with numerous partners. Having tried different positions, techniques, and fetishes and self-pleasuring themselves over many years, older women aren’t afraid of communicating what really gets them excited.
If the girl herself doesn’t know what she desires, it’s hard for men to figure it out. Cougars know exactly what they want and which buttons a guy needs to press to achieve that peak.
- They know what men want
They’ve learned from a variety of partners, which positions and techniques turn men on and have a full intention of fulfilling every specific desire of their lover. They ask questions frankly and cleverly interpret what makes their man roar like a lion. In case they don’t know, they will Google it for sure.
- They love sex
They enjoy sex and that is the reason why they date younger men. They don’t have any plans or desire to hook a guy into marriage or start a family. This relieves the pressure off men who just want to have fun without obligations and allegations later on. There are major reasons why sex with an older woman is like a breathtaking drive to paradise.
- They realize the importance of sex in a relationship
Now, she may have been in a marriage where sex had a back seat. Cougars know the psychological and physical benefits to regular sex and hence they prefer sticking to the mantra of “Love and Live”.
- They enjoy coaching young men
They know when to be dominant and when to be submissive. The cougar will buy books, lingerie, sex toys, candles and wine to set ablaze the fiery sensations of sex. They know, whatever they put into training today, will come back to please them later!
- They have confidence in their bodies and sexual needs
This is a huge turn-on for men who may have been with younger women still in their learning phase. Most of the younger girls are self-conscious and uncomfortable about talking dirty in bed while older women are spontaneous and comfortable being naked during those intimate encounters.
- They are aware of the fact that communication is the key
She doesn’t play mind games with the younger man by not answering her phone or texts, instead, she will approach a man in a bar and will not waste time in waiting for him to make the first move. Unlike younger women, she will be pretty sure about what she wants from the relationship and will make it quite clear. She will openly express her sexual needs and desires without beating about the bush.
Some people might get confused with the term ‘MILF’ and relate it to their moms. Surprisingly ‘MILF’ is the term that is stuck for describing this section of women.
Actually, MILF isn’t really about moms, it’s about real women who are comfortable and confident with their bodies and sexuality and aren’t afraid to show it.
A Cougar’s invitation is hard to resist and can get you on the verge of intense orgasm in no time. Enjoy your sexuality irrespective of gender and age. Cherish the moments but do not forget to play safe.
Now, if ever you get invited to the paradise of senses, always remember
“The tigress of wrath is wiser than the cats of instruction”
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